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Saturday, October 4, 2008



Now I understand why 命中注定我爱你 obtained such high ratings. I've been watching random episodes on TV and every episodes just made me want to continue watching. This 偶像剧 seems to be longer than others though. Hmm shall watch the complete serials during holiday.

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Interesting things we learn in Communication Studies...

[Source: Wikipedia]

The triangular theory of love is a theory of love developed by psychologist Robert Sternberg. The theory characterizes love within the context of interpersonal relationships by three different components:

Intimacy
• Feelings of closeness, connectedness, and bondedness.
Passion
• Drives that lead to romance, physical attraction, and sexual consummation.
Commitment
• In the short term, the decision to remain with another; in the long term, the shared achievements and plans made with that other.

The “amount” of love one experiences depends on the absolute strength of these three components; the “type” of love one experiences depends on their strengths relative to each other. Different stages and types of love can be explained as different combinations of these three elements; for example, the relative emphasis of each component changes over time as an adult romantic relationship develops. A relationship based on a single element is less likely to survive than one based on two or all three.



What kind of love do you have for HIM/HER?

当我们存在不同的地面上...


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Wow...

Seow Kia Hui is getting used to [almost] dozing off in Math lecture and drifting far far far away. I still love Math [I just cannot stand the teaching].

But she's actually participating in class discussion online [or rather, she's forcing herself to think; nothing much is coming out anyway]. However, the lecturer's habit of displaying the headshot of the person he quotes from the discussion board is a great deterrence. It's fun, however, to post up own opinions and see others' responses, be it agreement or disagreement. I should try to participate more.

This week is totally dominated by two things - COM205 group presentation and Nanyuan production. It's a good thing COM205 group presentation will be done after this coming Monday, after which I will have another two presentations to prepare for my COM205 individual speech 2 and Chinese Migration. Hope I can keep up or improve my momentum.

Tedious and exasperating as it may be, it is really quite interesting. I just need to be more flexible. I'm about as flexible as a diamond pole now - not. Jiayou jiayou XD


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